SOMEONE ELSE DOING
THE HONOURS?
LET’S MAKE SURE
THEY NAIL IT.
More and more couples are asking someone they already know to marry them. Can't blame you! It's your best mate, your sister, the cousin who's been dying for a big moment since 2019, saying the words.
Only problem? They've probably never done this before. Standing up, holding the room, and not losing their nerve halfway through is a lot to wing on the day.
That's where I come in. I'll write it, coach them, or both, depending on how much backup they need. Here's how that works.
THE GHOSTWRITER
From £750
For couples who want the ceremony written for them, from scratch, by an experienced professional.
What’s included:
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No templates, no generic phrases borrowed from a hundred other weddings. I go through the same process with you as I would if I was being your celebrant (minus the in-person meet up) except I work with your chosen person on the final edit of the script to ensure it works for their voice, and then I hand it over to them.
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How to hold the room, pace the ceremony, handle nerves, recover if they lose their place. Everything they need to sound like themselves, not like they're performing.
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We run through the whole ceremony out loud together, timing and delivery included, so your person walks in already knowing exactly how it flows.
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I'm just a WhatsApp away on the wedding day just in case they need some last minute hyping.
Best for: couples who want a truly personal, professionally written ceremony without having to write a word of it themselves.
THE HYPE MAN
From £325
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We talk through the two of you, your day, and where your person is starting from.
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Sent straight to your chosen person, everything they need to start structuring and writing the ceremony themselves.
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Your person can ask me any questions they might have, share ideas, and get tips.
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Once they've written it, I go through it in detail and give feedback.
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The script gets one more pass before it's locked in.
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Talking through anything that’s worrying them and how to hold the room with real confidence: pacing, voice, nerves, what to do if they lose their place.
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Run out loud together, so they're not reading it cold in front of your guests for the first time.
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I'm just a WhatsApp away on the wedding day just in case they need some last minute hyping.
For couples whose chosen person wants to write the ceremony themselves, with someone experienced backing them up every step of the way.
What’s included:
Best for: couples whose officiant wants the ceremony to be entirely in their own words, but doesn't want to go into it without support.
HOW IT WORKS
We start with a chat about the two of you, your day, who you've asked to officiate, and which package fits best. From there I put together a plan and timeline that works for your wedding date, whether it's two months away or two years.
Your favourite person can absolutely marry you, they just can't legally marry you, so you'll still need a quick trip to the register office to make it official on paper. Prices above are starting points. Every couple's story is different, so every package is built around yours. Get in touch for an exact quote.